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Hosing Down

Redemption: Tears for Beers

"...and my belief is: if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's probably Posh Spice…." It was the voice of my mentally challenged niece Danielle "Duh" Sinatra, and the words were spoken against a background of some heavenly choir doing an a cappella rendition of "Somewhere" from West Side Story.

Reality punched its time card and began its work once again. The music was coming from my television, a concert presentation on KPBS. Danielle's voice was coming through the earpiece of my telephone, which had slipped down toward my shoulder when I'd fallen asleep some time before. Let's see…I'd picked up the phone when she'd decided to call me at 2:30am; she thought it was the middle of the afternoon. She wanted to complain to me about her most recent boyfriend. Pretty much the same story as usual, which had put me back to sleep within a couple minutes. She loves to talk and was on another of her marathons, obviously, as my clock now read 3:25.

"Hey, Duh," I interrupted, the TV demanding my senses and soul, "I've gotta go. I'll call you back tomorrow."

"But what about Trevor? I mean, like, his parents are gonna ground him forever if they find out. How are we supposed to have our relationship get to the next level if we can't even party anymore? And don't say he's a jerk and I should dump him like you always do. Trevor's different. He's intelligent. I let him get to second base before he even was able to ask, ‘cause I always know what he's thinking. I mean it's scary, but it's so cool. He says he's never felt like this about anyone…"

"Dump him. He's a total squid."

"You don't know him!"

"Put him out of his misery. Kill him before his parents do. Bye."

And now I was hearing the angelic voices from the television undisturbed. I was gazing at the gorgeous faces of five goddesses, and I began to cry. Perhaps because of the natural awe at witnessing perfection of art, perhaps partially that these untouchable divas from heaven's citadel would likely never be given the opportunity to absorb my seed.

I learned during the pledge break that I was giving my heart to a group called Celtic Woman.

Superb music by awesomely beautiful chicks is a rarity. Early Kate Bush, Mary Hopkin, and Michael Jackson are hard to eclipse.

Before calling Duh back the next afternoon, I went down to Borders and bought the DVD of the Celtic Woman show that had so enraptured me on television hours before. And again I was shaken and again the fountains flowed from my eyes.

"Are you crying Uncle Hose?" It was Duh's voice on the phone again, a bit later.

"I won't lie to you, darling. Yes, your Uncle Hose is not ashamed to weep on occasion."

"What a pussy."

"Nothing wrong with that. Hey, have you ever heard of a group called Celtic Woman?"

"Uh-uh."

"Five women and a band and chorus that are able to rip your heart out, kiss it, clean it, and give it back to you until you beg them to do it again."

"Oh, you mean like the Spice Girls?"

I think she got the shock of her young life when I didn't hang up.

The reason I had loathed Trevor so intently was that he had been among the drunken fools whose stupidity last year in Pacific Beach guaranteed the end of any adult's right to drink alcohol on our city's beaches.

These are the jerks who cost us another of our precious liberties. I remember a lengthy debate with the young turd shortly after we had first been introduced. How I was able to keep my composure while merely looking at this civil assassin was due either to my maturity (that old generation gap again) or my keen awareness of the prodigious diameter of his tattooed biceps.

So many sweet memories, I told him, could never be relived or revised in the new reality that you and your irresponsible, idiotic friends have forced on us. I've not forgotten his last statement that ugly day: "Hey, man, everyone parties!"

Time has moved on with its own selfish cackle, which I've continued to block from my ears. I'd much rather hear the sweetness of Celtic Woman, which somehow calms me even as it hurts. I took the DVD over to Duh and suggested that she watch it with Trevor if she ever gets the chance. And I told her that I recently began to understand that the blame for the beach booze ban simply can't be directed at the rowdy group on that fateful day in P.B. Everyone who has ever had a run-in with the law that involved alcohol at our beaches is equally responsible. Those of us who never have, and who are angry or likely to become angry once summer rolls around, could do a lot worse than finding enough heart to forgive every one of the thousands of culprits.

And then relax with some Celtic Woman.

Celtic Woman perform at the Coors Amphitheatre on May 9. Jose Sinatra is becoming more and more of a wuss. Duh Sinatra is forming her own all-female group Amazon Chick. Trevor has entered the priesthood.